You can't expect to make no effort. You still have to make the effort and be kind and understanding.
“I have plenty of political views and plenty of social and personal prejudices. I do not, however, value them.”
“Earth teach me to forget myself as melted snow forgets its life. Earth teach me resignation as the leaves which die in the fall. Earth teach me courage as the tree which stands all alone. Earth teach me regeneration as the seed which rises in the spring.”