Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon them.
Oh see, first off you gotta realize - everything for me is a reconstruction or deconstruction. I would actually say deconstruction. Mission: Impossible would be the exception. That would be a reconstruction- deconstruction.
Give people enough guidance to make the decisions you want them to make. Don't tell them what to do, but encourage them to do what is best.