We focus upon pairs of words very often which are the same in some areas and different in other areas.
But even with a character like Cary who is relatively outlandish, at the end of the movie he's in a place where I wouldn't have expected him to be - taking on the responsibility of a woman who is pregnant and who used to be his best friend's wife.
I try to recognize that there is no such thing as having it all - and it's impossible to be perfect. You just have to let certain things go.

