Liberalism is trust of the people tempered by prudence. Conservatism is distrust of the people tempered by fear.
Sometimes I may be totally arrogant, sometimes I may totally be the most humble guy you've ever met, sometimes I may be in between. But that's life. Who isn't like that? What's the big deal if I had an arrogant moment.
Love in marriage should be the accomplishment of a beautiful dream, and not, as it too often is, the end.