This war no longer has anything to do with knightly conduct or with the agreements of the Geneva Convention.
If you feel inside you are a woman, be a woman - no one can take that away from you, man. No one can make that feeling go away. If that's what you need to do to be complete, then no one has the right to tell you you can't do that.
Listen, if you start worrying about the people in the stands, before too long you're up in the stands with them.