And we reduce almost all male-female problems by working on both the female and the male. And that usually means having both sexes take responsibility.
Honestly, so much of my book is about the best things in my life have happened since I'm 40.
When I was in art college, I would be painting, and I would create something on a canvas that was actually quite attractive. But if I got frightened and tried to protect that, that canvas would die.