Food can become such a point of anxiety - not because it's food, but just because you have anxiety. That's how eating disorders develop.
Grieve not, then, if your sons seem to desert you, but rejoice, rather, seeing the will of God done gladly.
Understand that sexuality is as wide as the sea. Understand that your morality is not law. Understand that we are you. Understand that if we decide to have sex whether safe, safer, or unsafe, it is our decision and you have no rights in our lovemaking.

