I know I'm an acquired taste - I'm anchovies. And not everybody wants those hairy little things.
We have all had the experience of finding that our reactions and perhaps even our deeds have denied beliefs we thought were ours.
I think people that have fear that, 'Oh if I have a kid I won't be able to do this and I won't be able to do that.' It's kind of the opposite. It really gives you energy. It makes people better.