I don't mind a dirty girl. But what I find tragic is when we, as women, become not the subject of our own story but someone else's object.
As a coach, they would love to sit there and say, 'It's going to be five steps, you're going to hitch up into a perfect pocket, you're going to look at number one - no; you're going to go to number two - no.' It doesn't work that way.

