I value self-discipline, but creating systems that make it next to impossible to misbehave is more reliable than self-control.
It's interesting to leave a place, interesting even to think about it. Leaving reminds us of what we can part with and what we can't, then offers us something new to look forward to, to dream about.
I come from an acting family, my father was an actor, and I had to fight my way and just create my own identity.