I was gone so much in my first marriage. I love the moments when I engage with my youngest daughter now. It's not my thing to sit on the ground and play tea party, but I'll do it because it's a moment that will stick with me forever.
I'm funny at home too, but not deliberately. My wife is usually laughing at me rather than with me.
And there is a beautiful thing which is wonderful, to look like a woman, not a green bean.