It is difficult for a woman to define her feelings in language which is chiefly made by men to express theirs.
I still believe that any country understands that if they use nuclear weapons, they will be wiped out of existence. They could be irrational in many ways, but I don't think they're irrational to the point that they're ready to annihilate their own country.
If you have time to whine and complain about something then you have the time to do something about it.