Maturity is often more absurd than youth and very frequently is most unjust to youth.
In mathematics the art of proposing a question must be held of higher value than solving it.
It's a wonderful side effect of what we're doing, to give someone the strength to come out of the closet to their family, or simply present themselves aesthetically in a way they feel happy with, whether or not their friends are going to be allowed to like them anymore.