I never did anything by accident, nor did any of my inventions come by accident; they came by work.
It's sort of an action flick. You can't be that funny trying to steal diamonds.
I always feel stupid giving advice since I've been married, what, a year? I can say this: Be in it for the long haul and just know there are going to be rough patches. No two people are the same, there are going to be areas where you just don't click.