I used to hear about guys who played saying how difficult it is getting up in the morning, and now I'm experiencing it; those same effects.
When you truly give up trying to be whole through others, you end up receiving what you always wanted from others.
You don't know what unconditional love is. You may say you do, but if you don't have a child, you don't know what that is. But when you experience it, it is the most fulfilling ever.