Men don't come up to you to just talk. We come up to you with a plan. We're looking across the room at you, and we don't care about your hopes and dreams. We don't care about what your future holds. We saw something we wanted.
Don't worry if they're Democrats or Republicans. Give them service and they'll become Democrats.
Basically, I started singing when I started talking. Music has just been my saving grace my whole life.