That's one of the things about getting older isn't it? You suddenly realise that you are what you set out to be. And there are no role models any more.
I haven't played a lot of wallflowers but I have played women who have been vulnerable.
I had some vague memory of visiting Canberra as a lad, when we came up with my father by car. But when I made the long train journey from Sydney to Canberra and arrived at the little stop, I did wonder slightly whether this really was the national capital.

