A million words were going through my head and honestly I didn't say one of them. I wanted to let it sit, simmer, you know I wanted to soak it all in - the moment was amazing.
Do not put such unlimited power into the hands of husbands. Remember all men would be tyrants if they could.
I think there's something degrading about having a husband for a rival. It's humiliating if you fail and commonplace if you succeed.