I just saw the movie for the first time in its entirely last night. It's really cool when you're in with an audience that's so tuned in and plugged in to what's going on.
You must never aspire to 'finish' a house, you can merely hope to start it, and from then on it's an evolutionary process.
There was a ton of fighting between my mother and father. The kids would be thrown into the middle, to choose sides.

