If you've attended the Cordon Bleu, you would know that no woman is supposed to be a chef - only men.
As a medical doctor, it is my duty to evaluate the situation with as much data as I can gather and as much expertise as I have and as much experience as I have to determine whether or not the wish of the patient is medically justified.
Once you have heard a strange audience burst into laughter at a film you directed, you realize what the word joy is all about.