I like exploring both the light parts and the dark parts of a single person. And all of those shades tend to come out most acutely in stories about families.
Because if you're trying to write and you have unlimited time, you can procrastinate an unlimited account, but if you have limited time, you rush to the page trying to get something down in the little bit of fragment of time that you have, and you may write a great deal that way.
Being perceived as a guy is nothing new or complicated to me. It is what it is.

