If you spend a whole afternoon just eating popcorn and watching football, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. But if that's all you do, you get swept along with the tide, without any idea of where you're going.
I'm a lot easier to work with now than I have been in the past, for sure.
Men become much more attractive when they start looking older. But it doesn't do much for women, though we do have an advantage: make-up.