It certainly must help us if we recognize that it is the presence of the Holy Spirit which creates a unity which we can never create.
People have this obsession. They want you to be like you were in 1969. They want you to, because otherwise their youth goes with you. It's very selfish, but it's understandable.
Emotionality is really easy for me. My father always said that Fondas can cry at a good steak.