I cannot consistently, with self respect, do other than I have, namely, to deliberately violate an act which seems to me to be a denial of everything which ideally and in practice I hold sacred.
Don't ever take a shower with a woman, because you'll probably end up proposing to her.
The old boy network is still very strong and very true. Just look at the stock exchange and how many men and women are there. It is still very much run by men.

