A lot of people just go to movies that feed into their preexisting and not so noble needs and desires: They just go to action pictures, and things like that.
I often play on the cello-bass side of the orchestra, because I prefer the deep sounds. I can't hear the violins well.
Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.