It's tough to stay married. My wife kisses the dog on the lips, yet she won't drink from my glass.
I knew I wanted to sing when I was a very small boy. When I was probably 4 years old. My mother played a guitar and I would sit with her and she would sing and I learned to sing along with her.
When the stories come easily and the writing process doesn't feel laboring, that's usually a good sign for me.