I'll never get used to living without Mo, but the painful things that surround what happened to him aren't so painful any more-not so raw or so new.
If you can understand the inner life, then you can wear the uniform, the tattoos, or whatnot and realize that the things that are different about us become superficial.
We cannot choose one desktop over the other - Gnome or KDE - because there's users for both code bases.

