Men make clothes for the women they'd like to be with or in most cases the women they'd like to be.
You take jobs so much of the time when you don't need to necessarily work for a living, but it becomes important who you are going to work with.
And for some reason, when I'm sad, I do listen to Leonard Cohen, I do listen to Joni Mitchell. I do find myself going to the music that's actually reflecting my mood, as opposed to sticking on Motown, which might actually bring my mood up.

