When I was young, I had two older sisters, and since I was the youngest in my family, my mom took me around with her all the time. I was forever with her when she was having coffee in the middle of the afternoon with her three sisters. And they would talk about men. I absorbed a lot of that.
If we seek the pleasures of love, passion should be occasional, and common sense continual.
In Judaism, there are 613 biblical commandments, and the Talmud says that the chief commandment of all is study.

