If I leave my computer, I'm probably not going to get back for hours. If I take a few minutes to answer questions and go web surfing, then guilt kicks in and I get back to work.
My truth - what I believe - is that there are no answers here and, if you are looking for answers, you'd better choose the question carefully.
Music - opera particularly - is a process which is endurable or successful only if it is achieved by people who love to collaborate.