The job of buildings is to improve human relations: architecture must ease them, not make them worse.
If I was in love with someone, I would get their picture out of the school yearbook and do portraits. If I was curious about sex, I would draw pictures of it. There were no books for me to look at. Then I would go find my father's matches to burn the paper.
I don't like losing but I've mellowed. I maybe have a short fuse but it goes away quicker now.