I'm the first to admit that I can't be as good as Tolkien, and a movie can never be as good as Tolkien.
Prior to an individual's encounter with the love of God at a particular time in history, however, there has to be another, more fundamental and archetypal encounter, which belongs to the conditions of possibility of the appearance of divine love to man.
Sometimes people can be guilty of not working at relationships and if it's not working, oof, that's it.

