I tell them how what matters is becoming the best you can be at whatever you're doing.
Is it appropriate still for a German to have a gun? I only use that as an example of a country that's still deeply involved and engaged in the conversations about how to come to terms with the past. Certainly for that country, it's not forgotten.
I think I have some anger-management issues, and they end up coming out in these passive-aggressive songs that sound happy.