Back in those days intimidation was the greatest tool the drill instructor had. Without that tool, he would not have had control.
When employers tell me they prefer married men, and encourage their men to have homes of their own, because it makes them so much steadier, I wonder if they have any idea of all that that implies.
You may be pulling from different influences because of different things that are going on in your life, different people that are around you and more experiences to pull from.

