That ability to take in your surroundings and sort out the important stuff, to be aware, to be vigilant. Then take all that information, put it together, and see if it makes sense to you.
“Motivation is the art of getting people to do what you want them to do because they want to do it.”
“Never try to impress a woman, because if you do she'll expect you to keep up the standard for the rest of your life.”