What is a sophisticate? He is a man who thinks he can swim better than he can and sometimes he drowns.
I prefer to say that I am a beautiful person. But the addict is a horrible person.
Just because an individual in his 30s hasn't found true love and, yes, there are opportunities to date but it also forces you to be more particular. In so many ways, you become more adamant about finding that right person and not allowing yourself to open up to just anybody.