I always feel stupid giving advice since I've been married, what, a year? I can say this: Be in it for the long haul and just know there are going to be rough patches. No two people are the same, there are going to be areas where you just don't click.
I think the most overused words in our vocabulary in the South are black and white.
Chinese buildings are like American buildings, with big footprints. People don't care about daylight or fresh air.

