I wanted to be at my sister's funeral, but my family has always had a complicated dynamic.
Working with the same people is so much quicker and frees up your energy for other things.
I have a good memory for early life. My visual memory is good about childhood and adolescence, and less good in the last 10 years. I could probably tell you less what happened in the last 10 years. I remember what houses looked like, sometimes they just pop into my head.

