It's not a bad thing for a writer not to feel at home. Writers - we're much more comfortable at parties standing in the corner watching everybody else having a good time than we are mingling.
I was home-schooled. But going to high school, I never would've been able to travel the U.S. or been able to do acting.
I wouldn't put it past God to arrange a virgin birth if He wanted, but I very much doubt if He would.