I don't know if proud is the right word, but I am somebody who does not, on the whole, have the highest regard for my own stuff in that when I look all I get to see are the flaws.
I dearly love the state of Texas, but I consider that a harmless perversion on my part, and discuss it only with consenting adults.
My experience is that you can't possibly win against whatever the tidal wave is that's coming at you.

