My first priority is my children. If at any moment I put aside something that I want to do to be a better parent than that is more than okay for me.
It was quite a ride and very conflicting for me, too - to be nominated for an Oscar, to be straight and healthy, and to be getting all these accolades while these people around me were suffering and dying from AIDS.
If I want to be a better person for whoever is in my life, I have to learn.

