We all have two things in common, no matter who we are: We were born and we are going to die.
I don't think Roger Dodger is really about men. I think it is more about relationships and about how you present yourself, not only to the opposite sex, but to yourself. What lies are you going to tell yourself in order to get through the day?
A lot of people are obsessed with looking cool. They feel they have to look after their image.