You cannot be happy with your family while being personally unhappy with your work. It's a Catch-22 kind of thing.
At the same time, we are keenly aware that China is still the largest developing country in the world and we need to make long and hard efforts if we are to build a moderately prosperous society in all respects and basically achieve modernization.
All right, then nobody can complain if we ask pregnant women to make parachute jumps.