It seems a lot of straight men need a word coach or a lawyer when it comes to discussing 'Sex and the City.'
Many women have told me they remember where they were when they read the book, and how they felt suddenly that what they really thought or felt about things made sense.
What I know about this world is that white people will take care of themselves. And what I have learned is that if you are where they are on an equal basis, they cannot take care of themselves without taking care of you.