Here's what happens - you create something in the moment that you feel will be good, and then... people's reactions to it or people referencing it years later, it's a compliment.
“You find with the really great actors, the ones you really admire and look up to, very often they're very giving, generous, warm people.”
“DURING the first years of my service in Dr. Flint's family, I was accustomed to share some indulgences with the children of my mistress.”