My attitude is that if you push me towards something that you think is a weakness, then I will turn that perceived weakness into a strength.
If I could have one superpower, I'd want to have the power of mind over matter. I'd want to be able to move things and people with my mind.
If you have it and you know you have it, then you have it. If you have it and don't know you have it, you don't have it. If you don't have it but you think you have it, then you have it.