If you accept the expectations of others, especially negative ones, then you never will change the outcome.
New York cops are very specific in terms of the way they talk and the way they handle themselves. All these cliches that, as an Englishman, I thought were from a bygone era or were a bit of poetic license with cop shows - the more you hang out with them, the more you realize how real that jargon is.
When people contend for their liberty they seldom get anything for their victory, but new masters.