But my middle daughter, Kate, is very involved in martial arts, and I was just at one of her competitions.
If you aren't in the moment, you are either looking forward to uncertainty, or back to pain and regret.
I guess I had a suspicion of it my entire life without knowing exactly what it was - knowing that there was something different about me, which I attributed to being an artist. At 11 or 12 I started sort of clarifying for myself. It took a while.

