These are my friends, my family. It would be hell on earth to spend the rest of my life leading them into situations where some of them are going to get killed... but it would be worse watching someone well-meaning but incompetent or untrained double those deaths.
Language expresses people's thinking and it was by a Word that God created the world and preserves it.
But the whole point of liberation is that you get out. Restructure your life. Act by yourself.