The difference is that if we turn from the Gentile first, we will have the Almighty as the immediate staff and our comfort. If not, we will have neither the Gentile nor, for a terrible stage, the Almighty.
What we find is that our brains have colossal things happening in them all the time.
As a housewife, I feel that if the kids are still alive when my husband gets home from work, then hey, I've done my job.